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I also like Neutral Milk Hotel too much.

</description><title>so it goes.</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @charmless)</generator><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lyxwewYDqP1qza3r8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24041509053</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24041509053</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 22:58:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4t7sexSki1r01fmdo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24041469149</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24041469149</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 22:57:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>neutralmilkhotel:

pickleandollie:

Giveaway!

What you can...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e90hhtd71rvu3huo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://neutralmilkhotel.tumblr.com/post/24030290298/pickleandollie-giveaway-what-you-can-win-1" target="_blank"&gt;neutralmilkhotel&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pickleandollie.tumblr.com/post/23503407677/giveaway-what-you-can-win-1-limited-edition" target="_blank"&gt;pickleandollie&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Giveaway!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What you can win:&lt;/strong&gt; 1 Limited Edition &lt;a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/100345785/limited-edition-aeroplane-over-the-sea" title="Listed here" target="_blank"&gt;Neutral Milk Hotel necklace&lt;/a&gt; (shown above)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to win:&lt;/strong&gt; Follow &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://pickleandollie.tumblr.com" target="_blank"&gt;Pickle &amp; Ollie&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; on Tumblr and reblog this post (only once per day, please!)  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When it will end:&lt;/strong&gt; Friday, June 1.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A winner will be chosen at random. Please only enter if you feel comfortable giving me your address as I need to know where to ship it! And with that being said, please only enter if you have your ask box enabled so I can get in touch with you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks, and good luck!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://PickleAndOllie.etsy.com" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://PickleAndOllie.etsy.com" target="_blank"&gt;http://PickleAndOllie.etsy.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Hey guys look what you have the chance to win now!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;EEEEEEEEEEEEEK&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24030323704</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24030323704</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 20:25:57 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
Moonrise Kingdom
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4n5ns0uh31qgj1f8o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4n5ns0uh31qgj1f8o2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Moonrise Kingdom&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24030182258</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24030182258</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 20:24:05 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>vogueflo:

A great example of just how fetishized Asian women...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4sud2vYqn1qb9jx4o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vogueflo.tumblr.com/post/24010449790/a-great-example-of-just-how-fetishized-asian-women" target="_blank"&gt;vogueflo&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A great example of just how fetishized Asian women are. &gt;:|&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This honestly makes me unbelievably angry—we can work as hard as we like and succeed in whatever we can and be the best people possible, but the only thing people want to view us Asian women as are exotic, sexualized fetishes on the same level as feet and leather collars.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Just…fuck this shit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24030155764</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/24030155764</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 20:23:45 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
 Break-Up Lines
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ejv5VwmJ1rww5u9o8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;small&gt; Break-Up Lines&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23975473095</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23975473095</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 23:02:46 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
Zodiac (2007)Dir. David Fincher
 I need to know who he is. I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rbam3ha41qzd72oo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rbam3ha41qzd72oo2_r1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Zodiac&lt;/strong&gt; (2007)&lt;br/&gt;Dir. David Fincher&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;small&gt; I need to know who he is. I need to stand there, I need to look him in the eye, and I need to know that it’s him.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974556747</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974556747</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:48:31 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>munrographics:

Bite Your Tongue.
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ri6qHZug1qdgumpo5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://munrographics.tumblr.com/post/23972455718/bite-your-tongue" target="_blank"&gt;munrographics&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;small&gt;Bite Your Tongue.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974352830</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974352830</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:45:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rjejvuDa1qmnsh1o1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rjejvuDa1qmnsh1o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rjejvuDa1qmnsh1o3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rjejvuDa1qmnsh1o4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rjejvuDa1qmnsh1o5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4rjejvuDa1qmnsh1o6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974304018</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974304018</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:44:39 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>INTERVIEWER: Do you and your girlfriend have a favorite song?&#13;</title><description>INTERVIEWER: Do you and your girlfriend have a favorite song?&lt;br /&gt;&#13;
JESSE EISENBERG: She only listens to feminist anthems, and I can't get into Cat Power.</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974145278</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974145278</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:42:15 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Listen,

It does not matter what you say. As a woman, as a woman of color, as a woman of size, as a..."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;Listen,&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It does not matter what you say. As a woman, as a woman of color, as a woman of size, as a woman with large breasts or no breasts and a lifetime of experience with bucketloads of passion. It does not fucking matter.*&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Because unless there is a white guy backing you up, you are an angry bitch. Uppity, spirited, “that girl,” the femanazi, the super-libber, the PC chick, the conspiracy theorist…&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I just wish my own experiences were enough. That the experiences of fellow women were enough. But we must always come with backers. We must always have a few men nodding along behind us in the crowd. And at the very least if we’re going to be so bold as to bring up racism or sexism in polite company then we better be willing to quote reputable studies that have been widely recognized by the psychological and sociological communities.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If we lack this armor we are just drama. Dramatic or… wait for it… psycho bitches who think everybody is out to rape them or thinks they must be, “Like, soooo attractive to be hit on so much and totally, probably, like, thinks like a victim.”&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;This is so dangerous because I believe it teaches us not to trust our own judgments. Sadly, in this world, that can be life or death. When that guy hits on you for the third time at the club we should just get over it. He wasn’t being that creepy. “Oh no, girl, don’t talk to the bouncer about him, that’s just drama. Just have a good time.” I complained anyway but nothing was done.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;And hey, when he tries to attack you while leaving the club—which happened to me and a friend in June of this year—the police may ask you why you didn’t complain “more than once” to security. I shit you not.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Because it is never good enough. It’s always a teachable moment from man to woman. So listen up, child, because that’s exactly what you are. At least until a white man comes to back up your claims. But I don’t have to tell you that. You already know. The trick is for this argument not to be dismissed outright by some dude in a Quicksilver t-shirt because the fact is, he has final say on the veracity of our claims.&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;via &lt;a href="http://persephonemagazine.com/2011/05/because-a-white-guy-said-it/" title="PersephoneMagazine" target="_blank"&gt;PersephoneMagazine&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a href="http://soydulcedeleche.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;soydulcedeleche&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974053236</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23974053236</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:40:53 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4r958xzGu1qgo16uo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23972778532</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23972778532</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:22:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3x6ad4wR41qg1qg2o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23972507466</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23972507466</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:18:12 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4e8gfmCdl1qcvmibo8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23971650009</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23971650009</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 22:05:55 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>ihaveabsolutelynoidea:

legitimate criticisms of feminism:
-transmisogyny and the lack of inclusion...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ihaveabsolutelynoidea.tumblr.com/post/20852846093/legitimate-criticisms-of-feminism-transmisogyny" target="_blank"&gt;ihaveabsolutelynoidea&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;legitimate criticisms of feminism:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-transmisogyny and the lack of inclusion of transwomen&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-the racist history behind it and the lack of inclusion of woc&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-ignoring and invalidating women with disabilities&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-pretty much anything that falls under lack of intersectionality&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-internalized misogyny and girl hate&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-promotion of political lesbianism&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-radscum&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;illegitimate criticisms of feminism:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-a feminist was really mean to me once&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-they’re sexist against men&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23965197145</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23965197145</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 20:35:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4o2fyNi6b1qzwjkoo1_250.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23964999616</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23964999616</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 20:32:35 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>vechernyaya:

Wes Anderson Bingo, generate here!

Let’s...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4piaorOS11qcb5vfo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vechernyaya.tumblr.com/post/23896670048" target="_blank"&gt;vechernyaya&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Wes Anderson Bingo, generate &lt;a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/browbeat/2012/05/24/wes_anderson_bingo_play_along_with_moonrise_kingdom_using_our_bingo_board_generator_.html" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Let’s make a drinking game out of this. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23907026346</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23907026346</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 23:09:45 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
HOW TO: Stalk One Direction w/ the one and only, Tyler Oakley
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4p8u2psPp1rx4t0oo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4p8u2psPp1rx4t0oo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4p8u2psPp1rx4t0oo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4p8u2psPp1rx4t0oo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;a href="http://tyleroakley.tumblr.com/post/23546154092/new-video-how-to-stalk-one-direction" target="_blank"&gt;HOW TO: Stalk One Direction&lt;/a&gt; w/ the one and only, &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/tyleroakley?feature=watch" target="_blank"&gt;Tyler Oakley&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23902549327</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23902549327</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 21:56:17 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>theheyzeusandmarychain:

I just want a straight acting boyfriend

me too</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://theheyzeusandmarychain.tumblr.com/post/23901762589/i-just-want-a-straight-acting-boyfriend" target="_blank"&gt;theheyzeusandmarychain&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I just want a straight acting boyfriend&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;me too&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23902414401</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23902414401</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 21:54:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3q7dq8gV81rrmoiho1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23899336439</link><guid>http://charmless.tumblr.com/post/23899336439</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 21:04:38 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>

